To everyone who wrote me off, take a look at where I am now
As a fighter there is nothing quite like being written off.
Being told you’re done. Finished in this business. And not by fans and so-called experts, but doctors too.
For nearly three years from 2016 to 2019 I didn’t step foot in a cage – but there was never a hesitation in my mind that this was the end of this journey for me.
A number of events reinforced that I would come back stronger.
During the time I was away from MMA a lot of things happened to me. Firstly I became a dad, which is a massive thing.
I came back from a massive injury that I was written-off from – the comeback from that was both physical and mental. I snapped my biceps tendon and there were a lot of people who questioned whether I would come back close to the level I was – or even if I would come back at all.
I knew I could do it.
At that time I was boxing and was around Tyson Fury every day. Obviously being in that environment you are going to improve as a boxer, but mentally being around him is something else. Seeing how a world champion operates on a day to day basis was huge for my development.
I was about 22 or 23 at the time and going through a lot of changes, he made me start to realise what my approach to sport should really be like.
From then on I was a different fighter.
Through ups and downs, my dad has been the one constant in my whole career
Fighting has always been in my life. It is something my dad was into so I was always going to the gym with him – even well before I started training myself, I would go there just to be with him.
I was a natural progression – I never had one of those light bulb moments deciding this was the thing for me, I just started training on and off as a teenager, but then when I got older the obvious thing for me to do was fight.
Dad has been the most important part of me. He believed in me before I could even believe in myself – he’s been the most important man in my whole journey. One day I am going to get a belt and I am just going to give it to him – that’s enough for me then. I am happy if that can happen.
I wouldn’t be doing any of this if it wasn’t for my dad, that’s for sure. He is much more than my dad, he’s my friend and so much of who I am today comes from him.
Family is everything for me, and I am so thankful for that
I realise how lucky I am with family life. It’s an amazing feeling to know that no matter what happens in a fight you go home to the love of your kids and wife – and so many other people on top of that. If I were to turn round tomorrow and say I wanted to stop fighting because it doesn’t make me happy, and that I was going to go and be a bin-man they would be happy for me. So many sports stars have people around them because they are successful, but I have people around me because they love me and that is really nice.
On the back of a couple of wins in the UFC there were a few more people trying to pay attention to me – but they are not going to get much attention from me. I do struggle with it to be honest – they want me now, but if I was knocked out in my next fight they would be nowhere to be seen. I know who has been there for me when things have been tough and they are the people who will remain part of me.
The other side of my family, is my team
I wouldn’t be here now if it wasn’t for my team. They are hugely important. It is a really tough job for them with a lot of work involved, but we are all on the same page and push for the same thing – a UFC title, but we won’t be in a rush for it.
We do work hard. I think that if you are training to fight someone, then you have to fight in the gym as well, otherwise what are you doing?
The UFC has to be the goal for a fighter, just getting there can’t be enough
To be honest we all expected the UFC call. We knew I was going to get there. We were happy to get the call but it was never something we went mad about. It is life-changing, especially with the amount of money involved, but I don’t see why you would do this sport unless you were a contender in the UFC – so getting the call from them was always a natural progression for me.
I fought in Cage Warriors in October 2019 and then I got signed by the UFC straight after with the view to fight early 2020. I was given the date in March, my opponent changed a couple of times, and then because of the coronavirus outbreak it got cancelled about five days before which was a pain in the arse. Everyone was in the same boat so there wasn’t much getting pissed off would have done. I was massively disappointed but it was out of my hands.
2020 was shit for so many people, but for me it was the best year of my life. I hate to see what has happened to people from a health perspective, and all those who have lost their jobs and it just makes me so grateful that I can make a good living out of doing what I enjoy – I am so lucky.
